Secret of Attraction

The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action. They know that love is not a mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the universe.

Deepak Chopra
Author of The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire and other spiritual guides.

I think judgement and lovelessness are the two greatest evils. It's easy for me to think of other people judging me, but it's more difficult to think about how I judge others or even myself. My advice is simple and difficult.

Resovle now to stop locking people up in the cage of your expectation. Hold no one in the prison of your opinion. This is the worst judgement of all. I believe we fail ourselves and create loveless spaces by building walls without options. Dare to find the love in every action and every face. Put into motion a loving attitude of graciousness. Meet people in their own space and foster their song against the melody of their own purpose. This is the greatest love of all. Accepting yourself and each other.